Archives for September 2011

Hope in a Phone Call at PPD to Joy

One evening in August I finished dinner, found something to entertain my son for a while, and picked up the phone. I dialled in to the PPD SpeakEasy, not knowing who would be on the line but knowing it would be largely women I had never met and (mostly) never will. And it was one of the best, most loving, most supportive conversations I’ve had.

I’m sharing the rest of that experience (and this post) on PPD to Joy today. Please come and visit!

 

Postpartum Depression to Joy

 

Yael Saar lost her mother to postpartum depression when she was 6. Years later, when she had kids, Yael struggled with PPD and almost followed in her mother’s footsteps. She survived her suicide attempt and went on to become a silly-side-up mama on a mission: to disarm postpartum depression and anxiety by removing guilt and shame from parenting. Yael served as a national suicide prevention hotline volunteer before she started sharing her story (with coping skills on top) at www.ppdtojoy.com. She is @yaelsaar on Twitter and you can also find her on Facebook.

Yael hosts a monthly ppd support phone chat called the PPD SpeakEasy. It is free, confidential, and loving. This chat happens on the 2nd Tuesday of each month at 8:30pm Eastern. In September, to celebrate her birthday, Yael will be holding 3 SpeakEasy chats. Mark your calendar: in addition to the usual 2nd Tuesday evening call (Sept.13 at 8:30 pm) extra chats will be held on Sunday September 18 at 2:00pm, and Tuesday September 27 at noon (all times are Eastern). The intention is to cater to the needs of mothers with varying lifestyles and time-zones.

For more info and sign up for the call visit Yael’s SpeakEasy page.

 

 

 

Photo Editing: Romantic Red Barns

I love driving along highways and seeing old barns. Farms are hard work, I know, but there’s something romantic about seeing a red barn standing strong in the middle of a field. Even – perhaps especially – if it’s run down. For that reason, this week’s photo for the edit me challenge really appeals to me.

Here’s the original:

old barn and silo

Here’s my edit:

edited photo of an old barn and silo

I didn’t do a whole lot to this. Using Pixelmator, I:

  • Cropped it.
  • Adjusted the exposure slightly.
  • Increased saturation just a little.
  • Did a colour balance – adjusted the colour towards red/green/blue to remove the hint of cyan/magenta hue that appeared once I’d increased the saturation.
I was tempted to make it sepia-coloured or black & white (see above re: romantic) but really wanted to show the weathering in the paint on the barn and the detail in the silo so I left it at that!

This post brought to you by my life list, #19: Really learn how to use a graphics editing program.

 

Today on Just.Be.Enough: I argue with Yoda

I have a new post up on Just.Be.Enough (in the Be Enough Kids category) in which I argue with Yoda’s philosophy.

What?

Just come and visit.

On the Move: Guest Posting at Life on the Mama Track

The fabulous blogger known as Mama Track was one of the people I was especially looking forward to meeting at BlogHer ’11, and she didn’t disappoint. Natalie is friendly and sweet and funny (and she rocks a pregnant belly). I’m totally thrilled to be guest posting at her site today.

I love her writing too – I know to expect something funny or poignant and she never disappoints – but, as with so many of my blogging friends, I love who she is beyond that. She’s totally genuine and always kind. And she’s one of a group of moms who have not experienced PPD but who have supported me, 100%, in my blogging journey. No, more than that. They’ve supported me all around – in blogging and in life. And I’m more grateful to her for that than she will ever know.

So please come and visit me there, and poke around a bit to read some of her writing, because it really is amazing. For example:

Waiting (Revisited) is a great post about how the decision to become a stay-at-home mom isn’t easy for everyone.

Want more on her “mama track”? This post – in which she stands tall and proud of her accomplishments – says so much about the amazing person she is.

Looking for funny? Out of the Mouths of Babes is funny.

I love The Sisterhood of Moms. See? She gets it.

Her husband is pretty funny too.

Comments are off here. See you there!

Life on the Mama Track

Syndicated on BlogHer

A few months ago I wrote a post about becoming a mother and losing part of my identity. Today it’s syndicated on BlogHer!

When I wrote that piece I didn’t even really know how changed I would be as a result of my journey into motherhood. I do now, and the gist of that piece is even more true now.

I’m beyond excited to have this on BlogHer Moms, a new channel devoted to the journey of motherhood.

Sparkles and comments gratefully accepted.

Syndicated on BlogHer.com