My Life List

Certain people are probably getting sick of me referencing Chookooloonks, but it’s my favourite blog. It lifts my spirits, always. It calms me, always. And something like that deserves a special place in my life.

Karen Walrond is the beauty behind the blog, and about a year ago I read her life list. I love this idea. I also love her tips for creating your own life list. Maggie Mason, aka Mighty Girl, who inspired Karen to do this, suggests that everyone should create a life list. I thought about doing this for a long time. It percolated. It existed as fragments in the space where my mental lists live. And then one day in early January 2011 I wrote it down.

I’ve since pondered this list some more, though I haven’t done a whole lot with it. I intended to post it here much sooner, but other stuff took up space in my brain.

Well, now I want to take my brain back.

This list isn’t complete – a couple of things might come off and lots more might go on. You’ll see some themes here, and I’d like to expand the variety a bit. I’d like to do more with some of Karen’s great tips, like doing something you love many, many times. But that will come.

For now, this is my list of things I want to do during my life:

  1. Go on an African safari/photo tour.
  2. Spend a month in Hawaii.
  3. Volunteer again.
  4. Attend a bloggers’ conference for strong women. – BlogHer ’11, August 2011!
  5. Speak at a blog conference.
  6. Attend a TED talk.
  7. Spend a month somewhere tropical (other than Hawaii) by the ocean.
  8. Take a photography course. – June 20, 2011. Read about it here.
  9. Get in the habit of taking more photographs.  – I’m going to count this as done thanks to my iPhone and Instagram.
  10. Live in another country for a year.
  11. Visit Ireland again.
  12. Visit Bad Neuenahr/Ahrweiler (Germany) again.
  13. Take language classes for a new language.
  14. Run a marathon.
  15. Cut my hair really short. Done! July 13, 2011. Short blurb here.
  16. Create a philanthropic fund.
  17. Do a public speaking engagement about postpartum depression. Done! Read about my radio interview here and my TEDx talk here
  18. Travel across Europe.
  19. Celebrate New Year’s Eve somewhere fancy.
  20. Really learn how to use a graphics editing program.
  21. See the Northern Lights.
  22. Ride in a hot air balloon.
  23. Get another master’s degree.
  24. Take Connor and Ethan (and Rich) to Disneyland.
  25. Write something and have it published in a major magazine.
  26. Win an award from a well-known professional organization for my work.
  27. Teach a course.
  28. Write a children’s book.
  29. Learn how to play poker.
  30. Learn how to make a cup of tea – properly.
  31. Have another child. – Done! :) Read the story.
  32. Complete a triathlon.
  33. Be an extra in a movie.
  34. Act in a stage play again.
  35. Visit Antarctica.
  36. Learn more about my family history.
  37. Take flying lessons.
  38. Stay in the ice hotel.
  39. Have a tree house. A really nice one.
  40. Visit all the continents.
  41. Own a house outright.
  42. Own a vacation property.
  43. Get to Mt. Everest’s base camp.
  44. Pay for a stranger’s dinner in a restaurant.
  45. Improve my 10K personal best.
  46. Take part in a silent retreat.
  47. Spend a weekend alone. April 27, 2011. Not as expected, but it counts. Read about it here
  48. Visit the Galapagos Islands.
  49. Learn CPR.
  50. Learn to hit a golf ball on the first try.
  51. Speak in front of a large audience (over 500 people).
  52. Get my personal email inbox to zero. (I’ve done this with both my personal and work email. It’s a miracle! This strategy from 5 Minutes for Mom is brilliant.)
  53. Get some form of exercise every day for 30 days straight. – Done! January 2013.
  54. Get a colourful streak put in my hair. Done! Read about it here.
  55. Give blood 5 more times. – 1 down (July 5, 2011), 4 to go!
  56. Write a book and have it published.
  57. Participate in a flash mob.
  58. Get a tattoo to commemorate beating PPD.
  59. Help someone else with her life list.

I’m going to start doing some of these things and will post updates on my progress.

Anyone else have a life list?