Making (a) Room for Hector

When we first moved into this house, one of the bedrooms was pink. Really pink. I’m not sure the photo below even really shows how pink it was, so let’s just say it was bubblegum pink as an introduction to why we wanted to change it. (To be fair, the people who lived here before used it as their baby girl’s room, and it did have some cool circular decals on it. But still, it was PINK.)

The initial plan was to turn this into an office/quiet space for me — I will have one of those in my house someday — and Rich and Connor went on stealth missions to choose paint colours in order to decorate it. Or at least it was stealth until Connor came home one day and told me they were going to paint the room black for me. They weren’t, but I appreciated his enthusiasm nonetheless. They were actually looking at some cool blue colours and had all sorts of paint chips to consider.

And then I got pregnant, and suddenly my room was gone and we started planning a baby room instead.

I pointed out that we could leave it pink just in case, but my husband was not a fan of the idea. (Bubblegum pink, remember?) So we chose yellow instead, which turned out to be a good thing because we’re not having a girl (even though Connor still tells me he thinks Hector is a girl).

Here’s a peek at the room reno. (Note: my husband, to give credit where credit is due, did most of the work here.)

These are the previously pink walls (and oak trim, which I don’t love but that’s present through the rest of the house).

pink walls before reno

And here’s the colour we chose – a pale yellow, and my husband opted for white wainscoting, which I think looks awesome. (And look, white trim around the window too.)

yellow walls with white wainscoting

Braggy picture – look at those corners! He’s good, isn’t he?

wainscoting in corner of room

This piece of the project actually started when it was going to be a room for me. I had seen this idea on Pinterest to put a bench in the closet and I thought that seemed like a cool idea for a room that wasn’t going to need a traditional closet. My husband was game, so he started to build this (and then we just covered the bench in a different fabric than what we might otherwise have used and did something different with shelves and hooks).

bench inside closet

Here’s another angle so you can see how deep it is. Kind of cool, right?

bench inside closet

Once we he got all that done we started to think about how to decorate. I’m a big fan of wall decals because they’re relatively easy and there are so many possibilities. We used small decals when Connor was born – it was a last-minute pregnancy panic but I like how they turned out. We had a jungle/safari theme in his room, and I wanted something different for this baby. I didn’t have anything specific in mind, just not something overly cute, because that’s not really my thing.

I started looking on Etsy and came across these owls, along with some other similar decals. I know owls are totally in right now – I don’t know why, and I’m not really an owl nut, but I liked these. I pondered this for, oh, weeks and weeks. I showed Rich my favourited choices and he saw one he liked that had a tree with it, and after much pregnancy-induced indecision we finally ended up choosing a couple of the original owl decals I had seen.

This is the placement of the big one. I was skeptical about whether this would work with the wainscoting, but we cut the bottom off the tree and it does work.

wall decal placement

This is the trickier part on something this big – peeling the backing off. My terribly handy and artistic husband, however, had a method.

peeling backing from wall decal

Once the main tree was in place, we added the branches, then the birds and leaves. (Had to have birds in there somewhere.)

adding birds and leaves to wall decal

This is the other decal we chose – a mom (dad?) and baby owl. We originally tried it above the crib but it didn’t work (which is why they recommend you place first before starting to actually stick it to the wall). It’s now on the wall just inside the door, which I think looks better. (The stripe of tape down the centre is part of the magic method for getting these placed correctly.)

mother and baby owl wall decal

And then we added leaves to this one too.

adding leaves to wall decal

And here’s how the room turned out:

owl in tree mural on nursery wall

owl decal in nursery

Finished bench in closet

What do you think?

A Mom for Mental Illness

In June I wrote a post about the type of mom I think deserves a Mom of the Year award. There were lots of other people who thought a mom they knew was worthy of the award – 16,909 moms, in fact. That’s how many nominations were received for Walmart’s Mom of the Year award.

16,909 nominations – that’s a lot of love for a lot of moms, some of whom likely don’t often get much recognition. How do you narrow it down from that number? I don’t know, but Walmart did and now eight finalists have been selected. Each of those women receives $10,000 for the charity of her choice AND $10,000 for herself, which I think is pretty bloody amazing.

I was browsing through the list of the finalists and reading their stories. And I stopped at one in particular.  [Read more…]

Five random things that make me smile

I was driving the other day when I saw something that, quite literally, made me smile.

Noticing things reminds me I’m feeling good. When I’m not it’s like I can only see a foot in front of my face and all the little, everyday life things blur into the background.

In the spirit of noticing things, here are five totally random things that make me smile.

1. Bikers acknowledging each other on the highway in the spirit of a shared lifestyle and passion.

2. Dark clouds to the west that signal a coming thunderstorm. I love the emotion and the energy of the weather here.

3. A sticker in a bathroom stall in my old office building that says, “You are beautiful.” I have no idea who stuck it there or why or when, but I still smile every time I think about it.

4. Ritter Sport chocolate, which is now available in the market in my current office building. Every time I see them I get a rush of memories of my time spent going to school in Germany.

5. My one word ring sitting quietly on my giraffe ring holder. I dare not wear it in case I have to get it cut off, but it reminds me of the word I chose for the year. I’m now, finally, feeling a little more vibrant.

Be vibrant, feel alive

Image source: A Mantra a Day

 

Mama’s Losin’ It

Finding Inspiration in Athletes

I know, I’ve been a little slack with the posting lately. I blame it on the weather – it makes Hector hot and that makes me tired so I’ve been flopping on my bed in front of a fan in the evenings. Cooler weather is coming soon, right?

The only time I wish we had a TV in our bedroom is when the Olympics are on. But it’s probably good that we don’t because I would stay up way too late watching. I love watching swimming, am awed by what the gymnasts can do, and could watch the synchro divers on endless repeat. Incredible.

I now have the teeny tiniest idea of what these athletes go through to train for something like this. Except not really, because how could you know what it’s like unless you’ve done it? The closest I came was in university when I got all worked up after the 1994 Commonwealth Games, which my hometown hosted, and ended up trying out for the university crew. Rowing? Why couldn’t I have picked something slightly easier? But it was an incredible year and it showed me what I could do if I pushed myself hard enough.

I’m sharing that story on Just.Be.Enough today. Come visit and tell me how you’ve pushed yourself past what you thought were your limits.

rowers on the water

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Building Beautiful

This post is part of YummyMummyClub.ca‘s support of the Dove® Celebrate Mom Contest. I received compensation as a thank you for my participation. This post reflects my personal opinion about the information provided by the sponsors. 

 

She is beautiful and I think now she knows it.

It’s not because she’s beautiful naturally, though she is.

It’s not because people tell her she is, though they do.

And it’s not because she’s magazine-cover perfect, because no one is. Not even cover girls.

It’s because she started building her beauty from the inside. [Read more…]