Versatile Blogger Award

Awards season is in full swing here at Farewell, Stranger. The lovely – and very brave – Naomi from Confessions of a Momaholic has awarded me the Versatile Blogger Award.

According to the rules, I’m supposed to tell you 7 things about myself. I already had to do this when I got the Stylish Blogger Award so now have to think of 7 more that will make me sound interesting. Here goes:

  1. I have 3 siblings and 2 half siblings. I didn’t grow up with those 2, but my whole sense of what family is about is due to having had a big family growing up. There’s no way I could ever have 4 kids, but it makes me a little sad that Connor’s childhood will be different – and somehow less – because his won’t be like mine was.
  2. I hate licorice.
  3. I was vegetarian for a few years when I was in university but chicken brought me back.
  4. I only drink black tea. Never met an herbal tea I could get down.
  5. I really like the Muppets (I even incorporate them into presentations I do for my work) and we used “Somebody’s getting married” as one of our wedding songs.
  6. We considered naming Connor Jackson but then realized since we intended to use Michael as his middle name that would be sort of…unfortunate.
  7. I watched the movie “Annie” countless times when I was in about grade 4. I counted how many times I’d seen it but lost track after 27.

Now that I’ve revealed all this nerdy stuff about me, it’s my pleasure to pass this award on to 15 other bloggers. (Yes, 15. That seems crazy but I don’t make the rules.)

The award goes to:

  1. Leighann from The Endless Rant of a Multitasking Mumma, who started blogging at the same time I did. She writes honestly about her PPD but she’s also funny and frequently very good when you’re looking for a touching post about babyhood.
  2. Denelle from Caitlin’s Concepts. Denelle doesn’t hide her crazy, but she’s got a stare-life-in-the-face attitude that comes through in her posts. Plus she’s funny. Plus she rocks responses to The Red Dress Club writing prompts.
  3. James from James & Jax. She’s another in the PPD army, but wow, is she ever versatile. Beyond PPD, she writes about her goals, her thoughts in response to Thought-Provoking Thursday questions and everyday-life stuff with her little guy. Her appreciation for things really comes through in her posts.
  4. If you haven’t checked out this blog before you really need to. The 21st Century Mrs is hysterical. And she draws. She even drew a giraffe just for me because one day I needed one. Before that she drew bears and after that she drew a stabby meat cleaver. That’s versatility, people.
  5. If you visit Mommy is in timeout! you will find Elena writing about taking time to have fun with her two boys on Crazy Mommy Mondays, recipes, and all kinds of other things in addition to her timeout reading suggestions, which I’m honoured to have been featured in three times.
  6. One day I caught a tweet about wishing more people would comment on blogs. I got in to a conversation with Tonya from Letters for Lucas about it and we ended up being comment buddies for a bit. Somewhere along the way hers has become one of the blogs I always read. I love her stories – about her son, her parents’ deaths, the ways she takes time for herself. She reflects on things and then describes them so others know just what she means. Plus she’s become one of my biggest supporters, and for that I just love her. (I am aware that she’s received this award before, but I am choosing to give it to her again.)
  7. Wanna see how a web-savvy chick who’s new to blogging gets her blogging ball rolling? Check out Bluebird’s Nest. She has a wee babe and a tweenager, she’s smart, she’s determined and she’s adventurous. (She’s also a friend and colleague.) Robin’s currently getting ready for the trip of a lifetime and I’m looking forward to reading all about it.
  8. I stick to one style of writing, more or less, but Jenna (or Frelle, as she is known) doesn’t. Poetry, narrative, memoir – doesn’t matter. It’s all poetic. No matter what she’s writing about, she puts her soul on every page and I think it’s beautiful
  9. Some people start blogging and seem to immediately get it. Mama Track is one of those blogs. She went from Harvard lawyer to work at home mom, which makes for some great blog. I can’t even remember how I found her, but I’m so glad I did. She reads all my stuff and is so supportive – one of those people I’d love to meet in real life. (While I was putting together this post, someone else gave her this same award. Can you believe it?! The nerve. But I love her so I refuse to take her off my list.)
  10. Someone else I connected with via Twitter is Liz from NorthShoreMommy. After tweeting with her and reading her blog for a while, I want to move in next door and establish a mutual support society. Except she’s moving. So her adventure will continue in a different way and I’ll still follow along.
  11. Some blogs are all “my kids are so cute!” and “look how perfect my life is”. (I think. I don’t read those blogs.) Not Jayne’s. She’s another one of those beautifully honest writers who manages to still be funny.
  12. Pamela strikes me as a totally funky person. Unfortunately for her, she’s riding the same PPD rollercoaster I am, but she always manages to bring it on her blog.
  13. When I first saw Carrie’s blog, The Sweetest, I was totally drawn in by her blog design. I won’t lie – I want it. If she ever decides to redesign her site, I’m calling dibs on that design. But that’s not why I think she deserves this award – take a look at her categories. From the kitchen. Lifestyle. Marriage. Parenting. Versatile, baby.
  14. A good friend of mine tells me I inspired her to blog. For some people starting a blog takes but a click. For others, it’s part of a process of determining who you want to be and how you want to express yourself. I think Kim’s doing it beautifully, so head on over and show her some new-blogger love.
  15. The last – and not least, of course – is Devan from Accustomed Chaos. If you haven’t visited Devan, you really need to. She survived 10 miscarriages and instead of wallowing she set up a site to support others following miscarriage, stillbirth and neonatal loss. On her own blog, she covers all sots of topics including gentle parenting and gluten free living. I haven’t met her in person, but I’d be willing to bet she’s one of the kindest people I would ever have the privilege to meet.

So that’s it – 15 women who inspire me, support me and demonstrate why all this bloggy-ness matters.

There’s more to come from the (virtual) red carpet. The amazing Multitasking Mumma has given me the Stylish Blogger Award (again! She clearly hasn’t seen my sweat pant collection). Over the next while I’ll be pondering on whom to bestow this next honour. Are you stylish? Want an award? Let me know – I’m accepting nominations (self or otherwise).

Thanks again to Naomi!

 

Party Like an Introvert

I first came across 5 Minutes for Mom when someone tweeted a link to this article about how to get your email inbox under control. It’s pretty much the best thing I’ve ever read. I use it at work and it’s been worth the cost for the sanity it’s given me (especially because it was free).

So I’ve followed along a bit and lo and behold I discovered that 5 Minutes for Mom is hosting a party. The best kind of party – the kind I can attend in my pajamas (like I’m doing right now!). I don’t even have to leave my house. It’s Ultimate Blog Party 2011 and it’s taking place from April 1 to 8.

Like most introverts, I’m a little late to this party but I’m here. For those of you who have wandered over from the main party room to the corner in the kitchen to join me, here’s a brief peek inside what my blog and I are about:

I’m a working mom with a son who’s almost 3 and a fantastic husband. I’m Canadian. I’m a chocoholic. I like to run (sometimes) and I love to write. I also had undiagnosed postpartum depression after my son was born and it was 18 months or more before I finally got help. I’m still very much on the road to recovery, and this blog is part of that. I’m honest about my experience in hopes that it will help others, because PPD is so much more common than most people realize, and it’s not all about “depression”. Being a mom is hard enough – we shouldn’t have to top it off with something that makes it even harder.

So that’s me. Tell me about you!

Ultimate Blog Party 2011

The TMI Girl

I don’t want to be that girl – the one who goes on and on in post after post on her blog about how much life sucks. About how hard things are. About how sad I feel sometimes. I don’t want to be the TMI Girl. I’ve met that girl – she hangs around online a lot – and I really, really don’t want to be her.

2 1/2 months into this and I’m hoping I’m more honest than pathetic.

Admittedly, sometimes I hit ‘publish’ and think, “Oh man, what are people going to think?!”

And then I get a comment thanking me for being honest. Or one from someone who says I’ve captured something she hasn’t been able to express. Or from someone who says, “I no longer feel alone.”

That’s why I write this and why I share this part of myself with the people who read here.

Because of this:

And this:

And because writing about it makes me a better mom to this:

And that’s the honest truth.

Fledgling Friday link-up: March 4 edition

It’s week three of Fledgling Friday! I’ve been so happy to have so many new bloggers linking up for this.

If you’re a new blogger looking for some friends, some traffic, some comment love, please link up one of your posts from last week (or any post, really – I’m not fussy). Please try to visit some of your fellow newbies, too – I will always visit and comment on all posts included here. Love reading what you’re posting! (And if you want to put the button for this somewhere on your site, I’d love that too – code can be found on the right.)

If you’re not a new blogger, remember what it was like to be one and give these folks a visit – please and thanks!

Fledgling Friday link-up: Feb 25 edition


Fledgling Friday is back for week two! Thanks to everyone who linked up last week.

If you’re a new blogger looking for some friends, some traffic, some comment love, please link up one of your posts from this last week.

If you’re not a new blogger, remember what it was like to be one and give these folks a visit. :)