Explore 2013: The First Month

My one word for 2013 doesn’t require me to draw hard on my will power. It doesn’t ask me to break out of comfort zones (much) or give up anything. It just pushes me to get out there and to try new things. So that’s what I’m doing.

See

One of the things that drew me to my word for 2012 was that we had just moved to a new city (and a new province) and I wanted to see some of the amazing things this area offers. We did a little bit of it, but not as much because, as mentioned in my post reflecting on 2012, I was experiencing the “vibrancy” of morning sickness for the better part of the year, which didn’t make me feel like doing much of anything. That hankering has carried over into 2013 and I’m going to explore, even if I have to drag myself (and my family) out there.

ice sculpture with flower

We’ve done a few things already this year, including a favourite event that we did get to last year before I started feeling icky. The Ice Magic Festival in Lake Louise makes for a perfect day in the Canadian Rockies and Connor was much better behaved this year, so I thoroughly enjoyed it. The ice sculptures are incredible and the scenery is breathtaking. Many of the photos in this post are from our day out there on Saturday.

ice sculpture

This one, however, isn’t.

red barn in the Rockies

Do you ever come across a view or a sight that makes you pause, except you don’t actually pause? I’m trying very hard not to make this a blog in which I spend all my time gushing about how beautiful it is here, but it is and I definitely appreciate it. Every once in a while I come across something that asks to be captured, but often I’m rushing around trying to take a kid somewhere or get some things done before the little one needs feeding again. On Saturday as I was going to pick up my dad before going to the festival I caught a glimpse of a stunning view. And despite the fact that we were leaving the house almost an hour later than planned, I pulled off the highway and took a side road, not knowing where it would lead. Well, it led here.

It’s a bit tough to tell (because this was taken with my phone and I used a filter that blurs it a little bit) but the mountains were crystal clear that day. I didn’t know this little barn was here, but it just looked so cool from where I was, so I stopped to take a picture before returning to the highway. Totally worth it.

Do

To me, “explore” isn’t just about physically going places. It’s also about doing things I might not otherwise have chosen to do – or have even known I want to.

walking on Lake Louise

One of those is my challenge to myself to exercise for 30 days straight. It was a weird, random thing that I put on my life list and when a friend suggested we do it I figured there was no reason not to. Today is day 29, thank goodness, and I’ll share some thoughts next week about how it’s been. (I have caught some incredible sunsets, for one thing.)

sunset over the Rockies

Another thing I’m doing is taking an online course called Create 2013, which is about trying to guide your intentions for the coming year. It has brought about some interesting insights, the most profound of which relates to doodling. (More on that later too.)

Try

And finally, exploring is about trying new things. Like saying, “Hey, I want to write for Huffington Post” and making that happen.

And teaching my biggest boy how to skate.

first skating lesson

So yes, I’ve been exploring. And so far it’s been good.

 Linking up with Just.Be.Enough. Do you have one word or some goals for 2013? Come share your update with us. 

 

On the Move: at Things I Can’t Say

You can find me elsewhere again today, guest posting for Shell on her Things They Can’t Say series.

Things I can’t say, you say? After all the stuff I’ve posted here you wouldn’t think there is anything. But it’s not actually about things I can’t say, just something I’ve opted to share over there. Where I hope my mother won’t read it. (Ahem.)

My post at Shell’s is about something I really should give up but don’t seem to be able to. Come and read about it (unless you’re my mother, that is).

 

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On Bangs and Bad Comedy

Conversation at dinner:

Rich: “…And Joe Flaherty is in it.”

Me: [blank stare]

Rich: “He’s from SCTV…?”

Me: “Oh.” [Half head-nod, half shrug]

Rich: “Are you sure you’re Canadian?! Canadians like SCTV from the time they’re in the womb. We used to watch it all the time in high school.”

Me: “Yeah, I have a feeling if I’d known you in high school I wouldn’t be married to you now.”

Rich: “What?! We totally would have hung out in high school.”

Me: “I dunno. I don’t think we had much in common then.”

Rich: “Yeah, we would have. Besides, I know what you looked like in Grade 12.”

Me: o_O

Shortly after that one of us got smart and changed the topic.

And incidentally, I think he married me because he knows what I looked like in high school. My awesome bangs from 1992 totally sealed the deal.

 

On the Move: At G*Funk*ified

When I was 15 I participated in a school exchange and went to Germany for four months. I remember a lot of things about it vividly – the cobbled stones in the pedestrian area of the town I lived in, the sound of birds outside my bedroom, the crazy-fast driving on the Autobahn. And the homesickness. Oh my, the homesickness. I’m sharing that story on Greta’s blog today.

I was lucky to meet Greta at Blissdom last year and she was an absolute darling. I remember her standing in the entrance of the very funky hotel we stayed as she looked for things to shoot for a photography session she was participating in. I was parked firmly on the couch relishing morning sickness at the time and I was jealous that she was doing something I wished I’d had the gumption to do. (I love playing with photos but doing that at a blog conference intimidates the heck out of me.)

In any case, she’s a really lovely person and a great blogger. She hosts #ippp (aka iphone photo phun), writes about her family (she has four kids!) and their gluten free life, and her goal is to run 500 miles in 2013 (which I think is totally awesome). One of my favourite posts is Losing Steam, a recent one of hers about loneliness and rural life.

I’m guest posting as part of her Great Expectations series and would love for you to come and visit!

G*Funk*ified

 

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Life Well Lived

There’s a group of bloggers livin’ it up and sharing stuff about their lives. They started with a life list link-up and have now moved on to a “life well lived” link-up, which involves making a list of things you’ve done (cool stuff, accomplishments, you know the drill). I’ve done some cool stuff, so I figured I’d play along.

Here’s the list of things I’ve done. (And if you read this blog with any regularity some of this will not be news to you. But some will. Trust me.)

I have:

Played a Muppets song at my wedding

Sat on a boat in the middle of the ocean with no land visible

Gone snowshoeing

Kissed the Blarney Stone

Dyed a blue streak in my hair

Blue streaks in hair

Sigh. I miss the blue.

Been published on Huffington Post

Lived and worked in Australia

Driven across the Australian outback with a group of truckers I had just met

Gone on two solo backpacking trips

Gone to the Olympics

At the 2010 Vancouver Winter Olympics

Driven halfway across Canada with my parents and siblings (when I was an adult)

Quit my job when I didn’t have another to go to because I knew I needed a change (twice)

Done a TEDx talk

Learned to read and write Russian

Had a C-section

With baby after C-section

My first baby

Had a natural birth

Sung a lullaby to a baby

Gone skinny dipping

Spent a weekend in Vegas

Completed a master’s degree

convocation photo

With my mama

Seen Lionel Richie in concert (What? I was, like, 9)

Worked as a telemarketer

Driven an ice cream truck for the summer

Confessed to embarrassing things on my blog

Trained a puppy

Wheaten Terrier puppy

Wasn’t he cute? (Yes, he does have eyes.)

Very painfully learned to drive a stick shift

Kept a major secret for 18 years (so far)

Lent someone money

Driven through a tunnel that’s 25 km (16 miles) long

Said “I love you” to someone

 

What would be on your list?

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